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With Psychologist
Dr. Margaret Paul
New Live Training Starts
Thursday, August 27

Are you looking for that “missing piece” that has eluded you during years of meditation, healing and transformational work?

Do you long to tap into a deep, sustaining, unconditional self-love that frees you from cycles of negativity, fear and shame — so you can move through the world with joy and confidence, as well as experience deep intimacy in every relationship?

Are you excited to have access to your higher guidance every day, so you can create a life of authentic purpose and on-going manifestation?

If so, you’re in the right place.

Those of us who have been on the transformational path have often spent many years meditating, doing therapy and participating in personal growth workshops. We’ve created powerful life intentions and worked on releasing our childhood stories. We’ve journaled our traumas. We’ve replaced limiting beliefs with more empowering ones.

And yet, if you are like most of us, there hasn’t been a deep shift in the baseline of loving yourself, which is central to your happiness. There may remain a subtle level of judgment and frustration with where you are — a sense of not quite being good enough. Deep down, you may feel unlovable, inadequate and ashamed of parts of yourself. Or feel you need to improve in some way before you can be happy. You may even hate aspects of yourself.

This state not only makes you feel badly about yourself, it also undermines your relationships. You show up looking to GET love from people, rather than SHARE love, which introduces a bunch of problems.

All of these challenges that prevent you from creating the inner wholeness that you know is possible can be traced back to the parts of you that haven’t fully healed.

Many of these issues are part and parcel of the human condition. Very few of us developed a really healthy template for love when growing up. And in our youthful “omnipotence,” we may have assumed WE were to blame — creating a core sense of shame or inadequacy.

Instead of addressing this at its root, we often create other substitute ways to experience that sense of unconditional love or avoid it’s painful absence — attachments to alcohol or drugs, addictions to relationships or sex, bouts with unhealthy eating patterns, even a tendency to numb out with media and technology.

Anything, it seems, to fill that ache inside to feel better about ourselves.

Additionally, when you hear spiritual teachers sing the praises of unconditional love, you may feel depressed because you’re aware of the swirl of self-judging thoughts, muddied emotions, and the drama that manifests in your relationships — which can feel anything but loving.

Truly Loving Yourself from the Inside

Thus, finding a steady stream of unconditional love from the INSIDE can seem like an impossible goal. Even if you are a dedicated seeker, you may find yourself struggling with a sense of incompleteness — of not having found the wholeness you are searching for.

That’s because there is an aspect of your growth and healing that is rarely — if ever — addressed by current approaches. And that is the ability for you to truly love different parts of yourself, and to create a secure inner bond between them.

The lack of this deep inner bonding is at the core of a remarkable number of challenges you might face — ranging from relationship struggles to addictions, anxiety and depression.

Underneath, there is almost always a place where you are rejecting or abandoning yourself... without even realizing it.

A Proven Process for Healing

It’s time for a new approach — one that blends spiritual practices with psychological science. And that approach is Inner Bonding, co-founded by psychologist Dr. Margaret Paul.

Inner Bonding begins with compassionate, deep inquiry into accessing and healing these parts of yourself and creating a new template inside — one based on your higher Self, rather than your parental role models.

It helps you feel, embrace and embody the totality of your Self, so that you are releasing your control games and addictive patterns, and discovering how to take action that reflects real self-love.

Before inventing the Inner Bonding methodology, Dr. Margaret had reached a point in her private practice where she was frustrated by the lack of real progress being made by clients. Then, when she met the method’s co-creator, they received higher guidance about how to develop the system.

Since the creation of Inner Bonding, Dr. Margaret has been blown away with the results in her practice, and in her own life. The core practices are remarkably effective with virtually anyone, and have positively impacted tens of thousands worldwide — including people like Grammy-winning artist Alanis Morissette, who has become a powerful public champion of the work.

In the years since its inception, Inner Bonding has gained in stature and importance as a potent method for creating the internal self-love that is the hallmark of psychological and spiritual health (and which results in far more satisfying relationships).

During the Power to Heal Yourself Mentorship Program, you’ll learn the core insights and practices of this groundbreaking approach and be supported to bring them deeply into your life to cultivate true unconditional self-love and self-worth — the foundation needed to go beyond addictions, dramas and dysfunctions of all kinds.

The Power of Inner Bonds

One way of understanding the Inner Bonding approach is to think about how psychology has shown that different levels of secure attachment are essential for a developing child. When you don’t have the attachments you need, that leaves parts of you feeling left out and rejected — parts of your personality and Self that were not seen, embraced or loved by your parental figures.

Virtually all of us reach adulthood with aspects of ourselves feeling this kind of rejection.

Instead of seeing this as a hopeless scenario, Inner Bonding uses a specific and proven 6-step methodology to establish clear, loving connections between these different aspects of your consciousness, and also to your higher Self.

You will be taken through these 6-steps in a precise, immersive way during The Power to Heal Yourself Mentorship Program — giving you not only an experience of unconditional love in the present, but also the ongoing support to work deeply with different aspects of your Self that block sustained healing.

You’ll learn how to dialogue with your feelings, pain, anxiety, self-hatred and fear, as well as get to the core of self-abandonment and shame. You’ll see how you can start connecting to higher guidance around your beliefs, and take loving actions that reinforce positive shifts.

And you’ll even learn how to establish new brain pathways for truly loving yourself.

Be Guided Step-by-Step

The first step in the Inner Bonding approach is understanding how to be present in your body through mindfulness practice. Most people live in their heads, and avoid their feelings by judging themselves. And because they’re abandoning themselves, they feel more alone and empty — creating more pain. You’ll discover how to truly be in your body, and be fully present to your feelings.

The second step is based on being grounded in the intention I will learn how to love myself. During this phase of the journey, you’ll discover how to love yourself in a way that frees you from controlling behaviors and unconscious reactions to pain. This will help you move into your healthy adult self.

The third step is a dialogue process with your feelings — pain, anxiety, fear, shame. You’ll begin to see all feelings as giving you important information, instead of something to avoid. You’ll understand the root of why you avoid certain overwhelming feelings, and what you’re doing now to perpetuate wounded feelings — as well as release outdated beliefs.

In the fourth step, you’ll learn to open to your higher source of guidance, focusing on learning how to love yourself, and what loving actions to take toward yourself. This will help you raise the frequency of your consciousness — amplifying access to your higher purpose, creativity and joy.

In the fifth step, you’ll take loving actions to reinforce the higher frequency. And in the sixth, to complete the process, you’ll learn to carefully evaluate your feelings.

This whole sequence does not happen just once, but can be applied many times throughout your day — during meditation, a break at work, or even while you are sitting at a traffic light.

It gives you an easy-to-use roadmap for working with issues, fears, anxieties and challenges that arise — bringing them into a state of loving wholeness.

Make a Lasting Shift into Love

You have the opportunity to join an intimate circle and work closely with Dr. Margaret Paul — one of the most respected teachers on self-healing of our day. She is eager to help you create a lasting shift into true self-love that impacts all areas of your life AND provides you with a daily personal connection with the loving source of your higher guidance.

Nine months is the time it takes to carry a baby to term. It can also be the time it takes to birth a new YOU — one that is connected to the deepest currents of love available, so that it transforms you, your relationships and the world as a whole.

Imagine what can happen over nine months, as persistent false beliefs and inner blocks drop away, and you open to loving and valuing yourself all the time. Imagine moving through your days connected with your personal source of guidance, so you know what is most aligned for you in every decision and opportunity.

Imagine the new levels of joy, healing, connection and purpose that will become available to you as your self-love begins to radiate through your every action and ring out from your every word.

The gateway is your self-healing. The gateway is diving deeper into Inner Bonding.

Establishing new neural pathways for truly loving yourself takes time and consistent effort, which is made much easier in a committed group of support and with an expert guide. This is why we are offering this 9-month mentorship program — to ensure that you can fully experience the deep healing and freedom that’s available, and come out of the process transformed by, and dwelling in, love.

If you KNOW you are here to open to your wondrous depths, honor all of who you are, and awaken to a greater field of love — this is a path designed for you.

The benefits of saying “YES” to The Power To Heal Yourself Mentorship Program:

  • Experience freedom from repeating patterns that you no longer want — self-judgment, relationship conflicts, addictions and/or attracting the same type of people.
  • Learn how to move beyond trying to get love, to experiencing and sharing love.
  • Release pain, anger and shame that weighs you down.
  • End many of your unhealthy patterns that block intimacy.
  • Get to the root of what is causing depression and anxiety, and learn to shift it.
  • Release and heal outdated beliefs about yourself.
  • Move out of stagnation into a life of aliveness, passion and sense
    of purpose.
  • Enhance your ability to resolve disconnection and conflicts with others and come back to love.
  • Approach new relationships from a stance of fullness, instead of neediness.
  • Replace your unhealthy, depleting strategies to get love with new approaches that are revitalizing.
  • Discover how to engage self-love — instead of addictions to food, sex and drugs — to fill emptiness.
  • Find freedom from parts of your past that impact the present negatively.
  • Learn how to deepen your spiritual practices so you can experience higher frequencies every day.
  • Move beyond feelings of victimhood, powerlessness and hopelessness.
  • Learn to love others in a self-responsible and adult way.
  • Feel more intimate with — and sourced by — your connection to the Divine.
  • Transform patterns of stress, overwhelm and exhaustion — and welcome greater ease, relaxation and peace into your life.
  • Access, and more easily receive, direct messages from your intuitive guidance.

Personal Mentorship

As you’ll be exploring intimate areas of your life, this mentorship program has been carefully designed to maximize your support. It provides you with not only a small, closely-connected community for the journey, but also every class will include extensive group coaching time with Margaret — so you can receive ongoing support throughout the program.

Additionally, and perhaps most importantly, you’ll also be having private, one-on-one coaching calls with Margaret every other month.

This is a rare chance to work personally with one of the world’s most respected self-love experts. Margaret is a sensitive and powerful guide through this inner work — and she will be available to you and the community in a deeply-honoring way throughout the entire 9-month program.

This is why this unique program is only available to the first 40 people to sign up — it’s the maximum that can be held in this intimate and nourishing way. This profound support will allow you to go to places in your healing and awakening that you’ve never gone before.


While this mentorship program will adapt to your unique needs, to deepen your journey of Inner Bonding, we will also be moving through three distinct phases that will cover key subject areas each month.

Course sessions are on Thursdays at 4:00pm Pacific.

PHASE ONE – Connecting with Self

The first three months of the program begin with going deep within yourself and exploring what it really means to love all of you by engaging fully in the Inner Bonding process.

Module 1: Deeper into Steps One & Two of Inner Bonding (8/27, 9/3, 9/10, 9/17)

In this month, you’ll understand what it really means to be present in your body with your feelings. You’ll also discover how the power of your intent — to learn or to control — governs much of what happens for you in your life.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Learn what willingness really means, and how this understanding can catalyze your deeper transformation.
  • Explore how to become present... for real.
  • Discover how to stay present with your feelings in the way that’s deeply healing.
  • Uncover and work with the resistance you have to taking responsibility for your feelings.
  • Explore the fear of feeling, and move beyond stuck places you may not even be aware of.
  • Illuminate the underlying reasons you may feel anxiety and depression.
  • Discover the underlying reasons you may also be feeling guilt, shame and anger.
  • Explore emptiness and aloneness, and how they impact your life.
  • Discover the power of your intent — and what may be getting in the way of your intent to learn.
  • Find out how to connect more deeply with your spiritual guidance.
  • Learn to stay focused in your heart.
  • Experience the joy of living as a compassionate and curious loving adult.

Module 2: Deeper Into Steps Three & Four of Inner Bonding
(10/1, 10/8, 10/22, 10/29)

In this month, you’ll receive in-depth help with the powerful Inner Bonding dialogue process that enables you to learn what your feelings are telling you and discover the false beliefs that cause much of your pain. You’ll also develop your ability to have instant communication with your spiritual guidance regarding what is in your highest good.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Deepen your dialogue with your core painful and wounded feelings.
  • Discover the lies you may be telling yourself.
  • Uncover and begin to heal the ways you abandon and reject yourself.
  • Understand the purpose of shame and how to work with it.
  • Learn to discern between healthy and unhealthy guilt.
  • Begin to become adept at managing your core pain.
  • Know the difference between hurt feelings versus a hurt heart, and what that means.
  • Engage in illuminating dialogues with your inner child about what brings you joy.
  • Learn how to raise your frequency and keep it high.
  • Know how your guidance communicates with you.
  • Access your personal guidance more fully.
  • Understand the most powerful questions to ask your guidance.
  • Know how to tell if it is your guidance answering.
  • Learn how to test and grow to trust your guidance.

(No Class 11/5)

Module 3: Deeper into Steps Five & Six of Inner Bonding (11/12, 11/19, 12/3, 12/10)
(No Class 11/26)

In this month, you’ll develop the strength to take loving action on your own behalf for your highest good. You’ll learn how to define your own self-worth and come to understand how to tell the difference between what is true and loving to you — and what’s not.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Learn how to take loving action for your highest good.
  • Understand what stops your loving action.
  • Explore what’s in charge of the actions you take and how to be more in charge.
  • Recognize what self-care really means for you — physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially, organizationally and relationally.
  • Discover and feel your intrinsic worth.
  • Get unstuck from procrastination if it is present.
  • Begin to take loving action in your relationships.
  • Learn the art of lovingly disengaging.
  • Understand the power of relaxing into process rather than a goal.
  • Learn the keys to staying present throughout every day.
  • Integrate Inner Bonding into your daily life.

PHASE TWO – Connecting with Your Personal Spiritual Guidance & the Art of Manifestation

This next phase of the journey helps you develop your spiritual connection much more deeply so that it can support you in everyday life. You’ll also learn how to begin to manifest the life of your dreams in new, powerful ways.

Module 4: Frequency (12/17, 1/7, 1/14, 1/21)
(No Class 12/24 & 12/31)

This month, you’ll develop your ability to maintain a high enough frequency to stay in constant contact with your spiritual guidance. You’ll also discover the subconscious blocks to connection that may be keeping you stuck in your life.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Explore the ideas of God, Spirit and Guidance.
  • Understand what frequency is and how it is impacting your life.
  • Begin to understand the blocks for raising your frequency and how to move beyond them.
  • Understand the connection between your mind and your frequency.
  • Explore your attachment to outcomes and how to live from a more empowered place.
  • Illuminate the connection between food, drugs and frequency.
  • Know what creates a high or low frequency.
  • Develop a deeper trust of your imagination.
  • Know how to raise your frequency and keep it high.

Module 5: Connection
(1/28, 2/4, 2/11, 2/18)

In this month, you’ll deepen your ability to connect with your guidance and understand how your guidance is communicating with you moment-by-moment — always letting you know that you are never alone. Learn how to utilize this to make the decisions that are in your highest good.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Connect with your guidance.
  • Understand the connection between your intent and your spiritual connection.
  • Learn to trust your guidance (but not blindly).
  • Practice the power of mindfulness.
  • Practice connecting more deeply with the presence of love.
  • Explore the connections between your mind and soul, and your mind and intuition.
  • More deeply understand what guidance is telling you.
  • Learn how your guidance guides you.
  • Come to greater trust in yourself and in God/Spirit/Life.
  • Know how to utilize guidance to make decisions.
  • Explore the experience of “the dark night of the soul,” and how to work with it.
  • See your essence more clearly than ever before.
  • Open to stepping beyond the fear of death.

Module 6: Manifestation
(2/25, 3/3, 3/10, 3/17)

This month you’ll learn the profound secrets of the art of manifestation, and how to create the life of your dreams. You will also discover how to maintain inner peace and joy — and experience a profound state of grace.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Truly see if you are manifesting what you want right now.
  • Learn the powerful art of manifestation.
  • Understand when controlling is actually loving.
  • Explore the real “Law of Attraction.”
  • Learn key secrets of manifestation related to surrender and joy.
  • Discover the real role affirmations play in manifestation.
  • Give your wounded self a new job.
  • Experience the foundation of abundance.
  • Learn the connection between trust, safety and manifestation.
  • Understand how to tap into causeless joy.
  • Learn to connect with the state of grace.

PHASE THREE – Connecting with Others

Now that you’ve taken a deep dive into self-love through the Inner Bonding process and tapped into your spiritual guidance for ongoing support, it’s time to move into your life and see how your work impacts your relationships — with partner, parent, children and everyone. This is where the next level of the work begins to take shape, allowing you go even further into healing and love and you work with what arises.

Module 7: Fears, Controls & Relationship Systems (3/24, 3/31, 4/7, 4/21)

This month you’ll learn about what you might be doing that is keeping you from attracting or creating the relationship of your dreams. Gain a deep understanding of relationship systems and the kind of relationship system you have how or have had in the past.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Explore “what is the point of a relationship?”
  • Learn the difference between need and being needy.
  • Explore your relationship to love and what it will give you.
  • Understand how to move from getting love to sharing love.
  • Illuminate your patterns of attraction and how they relate to your woundedness.
  • Learn how your self-abandonment affects your relationships.
  • Work with your fear of intimacy, rejection and engulfment.
  • Know how to recognize anxious and avoidant relationship styles.
  • Understand how you try to control — and what you can do instead.
  • Explore the relationship between control and resistance.
  • Deepen your understanding of relationship systems to create more love and healthy connections.

Module 8: Responsibility for Feelings & Conflict Resolution (4/28, 5/5, 5/12, 5/19)

This month you’ll discover how to share your feelings in a way that leads to intimacy rather than to conflict. You will also learn how to move beyond fighting and power struggles and into true conflict resolution.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Understand how emotional dependency is impacting your life.
  • Overcome fears of rejection and engulfment.
  • Be able to take full responsibility for feelings.
  • Know if you are conflict avoidant and what to do about it.
  • Learn how to navigate power struggles.
  • Discover the problem with expectations.
  • Understand the keys to conflict resolution.
  • Know how you are diffusing anger versus. feeding the flames.
  • Understand when to resolve conflict.
  • Learn conflict resolution without words.
  • Know when apologies are helpful (and when they are not).
  • Accept a powerful form of helplessness.
  • Understand when to end a relationship.

Module 9: Communication, Sharing Love & Intimacy (5/26, 6/2, 6/9, 6/16)

In this final month, you’ll deepen your understanding of how your intent to learn or control affects your communication and your emotional intimacy. You’ll will also learn how to keep love and passion alive in a relationship.

Along with Margaret’s group coaching, you’ll:

  • Learn to speak your truth even more powerfully.
  • Know when to listen and when to walk away.
  • Explore the keys to making requests versus demands.
  • Be aware of how to perform self-care in the moment.
  • Explore “what is a loving boundary?”
  • Know how to mend broken trust after betrayal.
  • Develop your courage to be vulnerable and authentic.
  • Enhance your mastery of the art of listening.
  • Know how best to reconnect after a fight.
  • Understand what sex means to you — really.
  • Explore the complexities of men, women and sex.
  • Understand the link between self-judgment and sexual addiction.
  • Heal abandonment and engulfment wounds within relationships.
  • Know how to heal rather than leave.
  • Learn how to keep love alive.
  • Fully know that what is loving to you is loving to others.

The Power To Heal Yourself Mentorship Program Bonus Collection

In addition to Margaret Paul’s powerful 9-month mentorship program, you’ll also receive these illuminating bonuses that complement the intensive — and deepen your understanding and transformation.

Food and the Loving Adult
Audio Dialogue with Geneen Roth

In this special session created specifically for this course, Dr. Margaret and Geneen support you in making healthy, conscious choices around food. They will discuss the difference between having the loving adult in charge of choosing your food and putting the ego wounded self in charge.

Geneen Roth is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Women Food and God. She has appeared on many national television shows including: The Oprah Show, 20/20, The NBC Nightly News, The View, CBS Early Show, The Dr.Oz Show, andGood Morning America. Articles about Geneen and her work have appeared in numerous publications including: O, The Oprah Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Time, Elle, The New York Times, The Chicago Tribune, and The Philadelphia Inquirer. Geneen is the author of nine books, including bestsellers Lost and Found and When Food Is Love.

SelfQuest Program
Life Changing, Self Guided Personal Empowerment Software ($397 value)

SelfQuest® advanced transformational technology is designed to move you out of feeling like a victim and into personal responsibility for your feelings and behavior. It will transform your thinking out of patterns of shame and self- abandonment and into compassionate caring for yourself and others. It is a journey to find your true nature, your true beliefs, your true calling and your true potential. It is a journey of self-discovery, self-healing, self-empowerment, self-transformation and relationship healing.

SelfQuest is a comprehensive, self-guided, educational, personal empowerment and conflict resolution software application that runs on your computer and guides you through your personal history and behavior profile, helping you become aware of your fears and limiting beliefs. It helps you recognize and heal any uncaring, destructive, and self-abandoning behaviors you may be experiencing and gives you the consciousness, mindfulness, wisdom and tools to manage, heal or overcome almost any life challenge.

You’ll learn to:

  • Create loving personal and family relationships and caring professional relationships.
  • Heal and enhance your sexual relationship.
  • Create a deep sense of self-worth.
  • Resolve conflict in your personal and professional relationships.
  • Self-heal substance abuse and addictions.
  • Self-heal anxiety, depression, stress, anger, guilt and shame.
  • Create or deepen your spiritual connection.
  • Achieve happiness, healing and loving relationships.
  • And much, much more!

The SelfQuest software is a powerful complement to this 9-month intensive and will help you unleash the true power within you to find yourself, heal yourself and love yourself.

Deeper into Inner Bonding
Podcast Series

In this special collection of “Ask Margaret” podcasts, hosted by Dr. Anita Arche, Margaret answers questions from Inner Bonding practitioners and discusses deeper issues of the healing process. In listening to the questions of others, your own journey will be further supported as you learn to fully integrate the process into your life.

You’ll receive:

  • "Ah" Relationships: Dr. Paul answers questions about the challenges many of us face in our relationships with each other and how relationships can be an arena for your personal and spiritual growth.
  • Learning Through Relationships: Dr. Paul answers questions about many different conflict situations in relationships with friends, family and co-workers, and what we can learn about ourselves from these conflicts.
  • Power and Control Issues: Dr. Paul addresses the power and control issues that often challenge relationships, as well as the control issues that frequently emerge regarding our own feelings and needs.
  • Healing the Fear of Rejection: Dr. Paul answers questions about what causes a fear of rejection, what to do when you have been rejected, and what heals the fear of rejection.
  • The Subtlety of Intent: Dr. Paul answers questions with a focus on intent and helps you to understand how subtle the intent to control and the intent to learn can be.

Individual Process and Creativity
Audio Dialogue with Alanis Morissette

In this candid 1-hour dialogue, singer/songwriter Alanis Morissette shares with Margaret how practicing the principles of Inner Bonding helped her shift her relationships with partners, producers and herself to become a more fully-realized person, mother and performer. Alanis also reveals that when she bonds with her own inner parents through inner conversations, she becomes more responsible and functional in her relationships. And, when she nurtures herself – in the same way that she cares for her own son – she thrives, and so does her career.

Alanis Morissette is a singer-songwriter, guitarist, record producer and actress. She has won 16 Juno Awards and seven Grammy Awards, was nominated for two Golden Globe Awards. Morissette began her career in Canada, and as a teenager recorded two dance-pop albums, Alanis and Now Is the Time, under MCA Records Canada. Her first international album was the rock-influenced Jagged Little Pill, released in 1995. Jagged has sold more than 33 million units globally. Her following album, Supposed Former Infatuation Junkie, was released in 1998. Morissette took up producing duties for her subsequent albums, which include Under Rug Swept, So-Called Chaos and Flavors of Entanglement. Her eighth studio album, Havoc and Bright Lights, was released on August 28, 2012. Morissette has sold more than 60 million albums worldwide. Additionally, she has written articles on parenting and relationships for the Huffington Post and

What People Are Saying About
Margaret Paul...

Inner Bonding really nurtures and fosters the relationship between self and spirit. Personally, it has helped every relationship that I have. I’m so grateful to Margaret for bringing Inner Bonding to people in the generous, nurturing way that she has.
– Alanis Morissette, Singer-Songwriter

[Here] is a method for recreating yourself as a powerful, spiritually connected, loving adult self — capable of taking personal responsibility for your own feelings and behaviors... a powerful method for healing relationship and family conflict, as well as for healing self-destructive and addictive behavior. I am very excited about this material. [It takes the truths found in] the newest wisdom literature, and renders them functional in everyday life. Anything that takes a huge wisdom and turns it into a practical tool is a treasure indeed. It is one thing to behold the wisdom and quite another to be able to use it.
– Neale Donald Walsch, Author of Conversations with God

Would you think me crazy if I said there was a single process that could solve all the issues with which we as human beings struggle? Over the years, I begin noticing a common denominator in all these problems and came to the conclusion that there is only one issue: humankind’s lack of experience in feeling our Divine Self and our innate connection with the Divine. All other issues stem from this... [With Inner Bonding,] we are taught a most loving process [that] will take you on a life-changing journey down a path full of awakenings, tears, compassion, reunion, joy and peace. This path, in reference to our divinity, is one seldom even thought about, much less explored.
– Lindsay Wagner, Actress, Author, Humanitarian

Margaret Paul teaches the value of stepping into a new spiritual paradigm — into love and trust of self, others and God
– Jack Canfield, Co-Author of The Chicken Soup for the Soul Series

Join the Global Community

The Power to Heal Yourself Mentorship Program not only offers some of the most advanced online teachings currently available, it’s also a thriving global community of learning and practice.

Join your fellow students and practitioners from across the world in the live interactive conference calls or in the custom online community — to support and learn from each other while you learn to take your self-love and relationships to the next level.

This international community is also at the leading edge of a global movement of people who are committed to manifesting a better world for all beings. This emerging planetary movement is rooted in an open heart and stands for the principles of mutual support, cooperation, harmony — and reverence for all of life.

Here’s What You’ll Receive

Thirty-Six 90-Minute Class Sessions with Margaret Paul

Experience a rare opportunity to be mentored by, and learn from, one of the world’s leading self-love teachers right from the comfort of your own home. Each class session offers teaching content for deeper learning — plus, group coaching where Margaret will work with participants on the line each week to help integrate and deepen the transformations.

Audio Recordings of Class Sessions (36 Total)

After each class, the audio will be available to you to download in high quality MP3 format. This way you’ll never have to worry about missing a session and you can listen anytime and anywhere — on your iPod, in your car, and at your convenience.

PDF Transcripts of Class Sessions
(36 Total)

In addition to the high quality MP3 audios, you’ll also receive the entire class transcription in PDF format after each session is completed. This way you can review, print and highlight the most important insights and practices that you’ll learn.

45-Minute Personal, One-on-One Phone Coaching Sessions with Margaret Paul (4 Total)

Savor the rare opportunity to develop an intimate connection, and be personally supported in your healing by this world-renowned psychologist and teacher — together alleviating obstacles and celebrating your breakthroughs.

30-Minute Interactive Group Practice Sessions (36 Total)

Following each class session there will be a live 30-minute interactive practice session where you will be placed in an intimate group with several other participants on the conference call to interact, share and do additional practices to help further integrate the weekly lessons.

Interactive Exercises and Questions for Each Lesson

After each lesson, you will then have the option to do related exercises, practice new tools and answer questions in order to accelerate your learning and integrate each week’s lesson.

Online Community

Our exclusive Facebook online community is the perfect place to continue your learning after each class. Here, you can ask additional questions, interact with your fellow students and get access to additional resources to take your learning experience to an even deeper level.

The Power to Heal Yourself Mentorship Program with Margaret Paul Bonus Collection

  • Food and the Loving Adult
    Audio Dialogue with Geneen Roth
  • SelfQuest Program
    Life Changing, Self Guided Personal Empowerment Software
    $397 value
  • Deeper into Inner Bonding
    Podcast Series
  • Individual Process and Creativity
    Audio Dialogue with Alanis Morissette

An Unprecedented Opportunity to Join The Power To Heal Yourself Mentorship Program

We at The Shift Network feel deeply honored that Dr. Margaret Paul has chosen to partner with us on this exclusive, LIVE online training. As you may know, this is a rare opportunity to learn directly from this renowned author and psychologist whose powerful insights and pioneering work are helping us heal and take our self-love and relationships to the next level.

Through this powerful LIVE format, you’ll not only save time and money on retreat costs (plus travel, accommodations and meals — which would cost thousands of dollars), you’ll also be able to benefit from her incredible teachings and practices from the comfort of your home — at your own pace!

If you’re ready to take the next step in evolving yourself, click the register button below to reserve your space now.

The personal attention and depth of this program require that we limit it to the first 40 people to respond. If you are hearing the call to be in this circle with Margaret, it would be wise to act now.

What Inner Bonding Graduates are Saying About Margaret Paul...

Margaret’s course was THE most powerful and transformative experience in my +20 years of spiritual practice.
– A.M.

Dr. Margaret Paul’s 9-month Inner Bonding course is one of the most significant transformative experiences in my +20 years of spiritual practice. This course helped me integrate the core of the Inner Bonding practice so I can continually evolve in the ability to love myself and others and it gave me access to the profound and lasting experience of transformation. I had many powerful insights every week during Margaret’s 9-month course and will outline the outcomes of these internal shifts. I forged a strong relationship with my own spiritual guidance and learned to access deep intuitive knowing that is centered in the body — specifically in my gut and pelvis. As a result, I created a new business with astonishing ease. I connected to the deep yearnings of my Soul to live a rich, creative life. As a result of Inner Bonding practices, I experienced an unprecedented surge of creativity. I learned how to establish the appropriate energetic boundaries with others while still maintaining relatedness. As a result, I have been experiencing greater authenticity and connectedness in relationship with others. These shifts and breakthroughs would have never happened without Margaret’s support and the practices I have learned in the course. I am deeply grateful to Margaret for making this practice available to us and am grateful for her partnership with The Shift network. I greatly enjoyed the course and will take it again in the fall of 2015.
Aida, New York, NY

This nine-month course was truly a journey. I treasure the insights and practice — it was life-changing and I’m very grateful for the opportunity to be able to do this work.
Cheryl, Austin, TX

I have done a lot of inner child work and felt like I did not get anywhere with my inner child. This course addressed this issue and the reason why not right from the start. Margaret is so authentic, loving and clear with a gentle firmness like a good parent. I feel so much more in touch also with my authentic self and feel I got the tools to establish this relationship and therefore having much more fulfilling relationships with friends and partner. Thank you so much.
– Thea Dixon, Santa Monica, CA

I found the course very helpful and timely. The questions and answers and role-playing sessions were so applicable to my own life and situation. Dr. Margaret Paul is an incredible person and healer. I am so grateful to The Shift Network for their part in putting together and managing such an interesting and essential course. Thank you.
– Elaine, Toronto, Ontario, Canada

I enjoyed this class immensely. A few times during a session, I saw the exact circumstance where my negative patterns began. The 6 steps that Margaret teaches is a great technique to show you where you are stuck and then how to transform this energy in a positive and loving way. She teaches that we always have to take care, love and respect ourselves first before any change can really happen. I loved this course because now I have tools to use when I am distressed that will help me to overcome this feeling. Thank you Margaret.
– Cheri, San Diego, CA

About Margaret Paul

Dr. Margaret Paul is the author/co-author of several bestselling books, including Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved By You ?, Inner Bonding, Healing Your Aloneness, The Healing Your Aloneness Workbook, Do I Have To Give Up Me to Be Loved By My Kids? and Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God? Dr. Paul’s books have been distributed around the world and have been translated into 11 languages.

Margaret holds a Ph.D. in psychology and is a relationship expert, noted public speaker, workshop leader, educator, chaplain, consultant and artist. She has appeared on many radio and TV shows, including The Oprah Show. She has successfully worked with thousands of individuals, couples and business relationships — and taught classes and seminars since 1967.

Margaret continues to work with individuals and couples throughout the world. She is able to access spiritual guidance during her sessions, which enables her to work with people wherever they are in the world. Margaret is passionate about helping people rapidly heal the root cause of their pain, and learn the path to joy and loving relationships.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is a virtual course?
"I have never participated before in an on-line course. The packaging, presentation, inclusion, and facebook postings created a wonderful safe cocoon to participate. I haven’t seen a course so well put together ever – not in all the years of taking college classes – and I had my doubts about doing an on-line course. The wealth of organization and ease of learning materials and support made this fun as well.”
- Claudia F., Medford

A: It’s a great way to engage live teachings and each other from the comfort of your home! All you need is a phone line (or an equivalent voice service). If there is more than one person in your household taking the course, you will each need your own line. We use MaestroConference to make it just like an in-person event, where you can ask questions, participate in groups, and deepen your exploration of the course themes.

Please note that dialing MaestroConference from your phone is a regular toll call to California, and your telephone service provider will charge you according to your existing long-distance calling plan. You can also use Skype credit/subscription or Google Voice to dial in to MaestroConference, and you’ll need to use your virtual keypad to enter your PIN and to indicate that you want to ask a question. Other options include calling cards and discount long-distance carriers, and we also have a webcast which is free to use from anywhere in the world.

Q: Can I get benefit from the course if I miss the live classes?
A: Absolutely! You can download the recordings and transcripts of all course sessions from our online media archive, so you never need to worry about missing live calls. You can also engage the full community and leaders on our private community website.

Q: Can you tell me about the Private Course Group?
A: We will have a private community group for all course participants on Facebook that will support you in making connections with others, sharing insights, engaging in discussions, completing homework assignments and exchanging information about events and other activities that can supplement your transformational journey. You’ll have the ability to share your experiences, projects, and growth throughout the Course.

Q: Are there scholarships available for this Training?
A: Yes, we have a limited number of partial scholarships available for this program, however, they do not include any personal coaching sessions with Dr. Paul. If you would like to apply for a scholarship, please review our guidelines, which include a link to our online application form.

Q: What is your refund policy?
A: Your satisfaction with The Shift Network and this course is our highest priority! We offer a satisfaction guarantee so that you can sample the course risk-free. The deadline to receive a full refund is September 10th, 2015. To request a refund, please click on this refund request form and submit your request. Your refund will be processed within five business days and we'll send you an email confirming your refund. However, we'd love to have a chance to address and resolve your concerns first. If there is something we can assist you with, please email us at, and we'll be happy to help! (No refund requests accepted after the above date or with scholarship awards.)

Q: How can I reach Customer Support?
A: Please visit our Customer Support Center, where you should be able to find the answer to your question or the solution to a problem. And if you can’t, you can submit an online request form and we’ll get right back to you.